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Memorial Day 2021 - Missing Man Table
The Missing Man Table
A missing man table, also known as a fallen comrade table, is a ceremony and memorial that is set up in military dining facilities of the United States Armed Forces and during official dining functions, in honor of fallen, missing, or imprisoned military service members. The table serves as the focal point of ceremonial remembrance, originally growing out of US concern of the Vietnam War POW/MIA issue.
The missing man table consists of the following elements:
- A small table set for one, symbolizing the isolation of the absent service member. The table is usually set close to, or within sight of, the entrance to the dining room. For large events, the missing man table may be set for six places representing each of the five armed services (Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Air Force, and Coast Guard), with the sixth symbolizing the civilians who died during armed conflict. The table is round to represent the everlasting concern the survivors have for the missing.
- One or more head covers may be placed upon the table to represent the armed service of the missing persons.
- A white tablecloth to symbolize the pure intentions of the service members who responded to the country's call to arms.
- A single rose in the vase symbolizing the blood that service members have shed in sacrifice to ensure the freedom of the United States of America. This rose also represents the family and friends who keep the faith while awaiting the return of the missing service members.
- The red ribbon represents a love of country that inspired the service members to serve the country.
- A slice of lemon on the bread plate represents the bitter fate of the missing.
- Salt sprinkled on the bread plate symbolizes the tears shed by waiting families.
- An inverted glass to represents the fact that the missing and fallen cannot partake.
- A Bible represents the spiritual strength and faith to sustain the loss. This may be omitted in official displays..
- A lit candle symbolizes a light of hope that lives in hearts to illuminate the missing way home.
- An empty chair to represent the absence of the missing and fallen
The elements are tradition, not prescribed. Individual displays may differ depending on the availability, practicality, and appropriateness of the various elements in a particular venue. The Bible, for example, could be omitted in a non-Christian or secular setting.